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#8– SINGLE PARENTING AND STEP FAMILIES

               Discussion – Slide 8 (7 Minutes)

               Slide 8 – Age Matters – Step Families






















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                 Review the slide contents to see reactions and expectations of kids in a
                   step family situation.


                              For Step Moms                                  For Step Dads
               Tips for being a good stepmom                  Being a great stepdad
                   •  Do the kids like you or not? If not,        •  Show how much you love their
                       give them some space; if they do,             mother
                       work to build a relationship               •  Take on a mentor role with the kids.
                   •  Don’t be jealous of their                      Don’t expect to replace their
                       relationship with their father or their       biological dad.
                       mother.                                    •  Don’t jump in to the disciplinarian
                   •  Get to know the kids’ real mom –               role – let the mom do that to start
                       let her know you don’t want to take           with. Make sure they know basic
                       her place with the kids.                      expectations
                   •  Let their dad do the serious talks          •  Make sure to make time for you and
                   •  Don’t take it personally if they call          your wife as a couple.
                       you by your first name, don’t expect       •  Work as a team and stick together
                       them to call you mom; that takes              with your wife.
                       time                                       •  Be patient, it takes time to build the
                                                                     trust and relationships that make a
                                                                     strong family.
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